We Recommend the "Page Down" Button

Frequently Asked Questions
For Parents

  1. Is Warwick Dyer the expert who made the Channel 4 Series  "Bad Behaviour"   and will it be Warwick himself that works with my family?

    Yes, he is, and he successfully changed the lives of each family, and yes, it will be Warwick who will work with you himself, no other individuals are involved at any stage.

    Feedback From the Channel 4 Programme - CLICK HERE -





  2. What is the age range within which the Consultancy works?

    Our child behaviour work is with children from a few months old up to older teenagers and those in their early twenties.                  

    My Child is now Twenty






  3. What type of child behaviour is the Consultancy successful in changing?

    Our success rate is very high [very near 100%] and we are successful in changing two types of behaviour.

    Firstly what is best described as "bad behaviour", which means child behaviour that may appear serious but has no serious underling cause.   The type of interactional child behaviour that is   listed here.  

    Secondly we work with the parents of children diagnosed with ADHD and other child behaviour disorders* with the child behaviour that comes from interactional factors that can often be successfully changed.
    * with discussion with the professionals who have been involved.


    Back to top





  4. Does Warwick have a book that explains his methods and the way he works ?

    An ebook yes. It costs £9.99 ($16.95) and it can be downloaded and read immediately - here.  

    Mercury's Child - download

    Warwick Dyer's
    Child Behaviour Change Ebook

    Mercury's Child

    cover

    The complete Child / Teenage Child Behaviour Change System as seen on four Award winning TV  Documentaries.


            £9.99
                Click to buy           


    Comments in the National Press about this system








  5. What is the Focus for the training ?

    Practical   -   we work with the responses you are using to the challenging behaviour.

    Back to top






  6. Do you work with clients Worldwide?

    Yes.   Warwick enjoys travel and will visit and work with clients anywhere in the world.   We make no extra charge for the time and effort involved in flying overseas; this applies to all countries worldwide.






  7. How can I be sure that I need help with my child's bad behaviour?

    If the child behaviour is causing you concern and is static or getting worse.


    Comments In the National Press  about Warwick's work

    Back to top





  8. My child does not have a problem at home - only at school - can you still help?

    Warwick has been working with child behaviour for 25 years much of that time in schools and working intensely with parents for the last 8 years and in all that time he has never come across a case where children behaved reasonably (and were handled reasonably) at home but then behaved badly at school.   Have a look at his response to a parent who asked this question fine at home bad at school.  





  9. How long does the process take?

    Following a full day of Training, each family has an intensive six weeks of in-depth discussion with Warwick each day - often including weekends and holidays.   For many parents this month and a half of daily support is all that is needed but if parents need further support they continue to record daily events and have a detailed conversation with Warwick each week until they decide this is no longer required.

    Back to top




  10. What is the structure of the intervention with families?

    1. The Problem
      You give us a detailed description of the problem and the changes that you require

    2. The Responses
      You give us a detailed description of your current responses and what you have tried in the past.

    3. The Explanation
      We give a detailed analysis of the effects of your current dynamics and a detailed explanation of an alternative response to each of the behaviours that you want to change

    4. The Intervention
      You begin the new responses the moment you next see your child

    5. Daily Support
      You communicate with us each day and then weekly until the changes identified are achieved

    6. Open-Ended
      We are so confident that you will achieve your goal that you pay only a one-off payment for the original consultation and the six weeks of in-depth work.   We do not charge for the weekly fine-tuning that we do following this should parents still require it.   The body of the work is done in the weeks following the consultation day - but we create no barrier to the weekly consultation and it lasts as long as the parents feel they need it.

    7. The big difference - this is the big difference between our approach and that of other agencies.  Not only do we make detailed suggestions of what you should do (often professionals make general statements rather than give you the detail that you need) but we also put ourselves on the line each day to support you with each change that you make.   If we were not effective we would never work in this exposed way.

      Back to top






  11. Why do parents choose interactive child behaviour management training for their children's behaviour?

    Because if the changes are to be maintained they need to know how to change and maintain their child's behaviour.   They do not need their authority to be undermined even temporarily by someone from outside.   With IB (interactive behaviour) training, they remain the focus for change; as far as the children are concerned all the changes are generated by their parents.   The alternatives available tend to be various forms of more intrusive, longer-term, child or family counselling/therapy.

    Parents often come to us after long-term involvement with other agencies and state that they still do not know what to do in response to their child's child behaviour problem.

    We offer a fast practical and effective intervention for those who want the child behaviour problem with their child to change without long-term intervention or any unnecessary intrusion into other aspects of their life.

    Back to top




  12. Will the intervention be successful ?

    Our success rate is  very  high.  In fact to date amongst our fee-paying clientele we have a near 100% success rate. We do guarantee that this statement is true (to the best of our knowledge) we do not guarantee success.

    Buy and Download Warwick Dyer's Comprehensive
    Child Behaviour Change E-Book
    E-Book download
    Step by step guide to his unique child behaviour change system





  13. My husband (my wife/partner) does not agree that we have a problem; will you be prepared to work just with me?

    No, I am afraid not.  Often parents have differing ways of responding to the same problem and this inconsistency is one of the first issues that has to be addressed.   Both parents have to agree to phone together each day and both have to be completely committed for the intervention to be successful. We do, of course, work with single parent families.

    Back to top




  14. What qualifications and training does Warwick Dyer have?

    Warwick is a  Teacher  he is not a Doctor, Psychiatrist, Psychologist or Counsellor.  He had extensive training   (6 years of weekly in-service training and weekly case-study analysis)   in a team of specialist teachers and worked for 18 years as a child behaviour specialist advising and training teachers and parents and advising youngsters.





  15. Does Warwick have the new US founded Board Certified Behavior Analyst Qualification (BCBA or BCABA)?

    Warwick has not been accredited by the new US founded Behavior Analyst Certification Board (BCBA or BCABA) and does not have any formal child behaviour analysts' degree or qualification.

    Back to top




  16. I know nothing other than what I read here; how can I be sure what is said here is genuine?

    We are happy for you to speak to any of our previous or current clients.

    We link to a response we made to a client that asked us this question     here.







  17. Behaviour Modification techniques do not work with my child, he/she does not seem to care about punishments and rewards

    Parents often say this to us, if this were really true then their child would be very strange indeed.   The truth is that parents who say this have no idea of the punishments and rewards they are actually using.   Most parents are inadvertently rewarding the very child behaviour that they want to change and punishing child behaviour that they should be encouraging.

    See a recent typical evaluation

    What parents say

    Back to top




  18. What happens if the bad child behaviour recurs or other unwanted behaviours replaces it?

    To date we have never had a case where this has happened.  In fact we are so confident that our training is comprehensive we say that the fee (full intervention) entitles parents (unique among professionals) to remain our clients so that they will always be able to ring us at any point in the future if they begin to feel that child behaviour is slipping.  [This facility would not apply if parents allow the child behaviour to slip right back to its former levels, particularly if new factors like medicated depression or marital difficulties have arisen.  We might, of course, still be able to take on parents again as "new" clients.]







  19. Do you work with children who have been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) ?

    With the child behaviour associated with ADHD, yes. Often professionals working with ADHD advise parents to obtain child behaviour management training. If parents or their children are, or have been, under the guidance of another professional then courtesy requires that they (and we) speak to them first.

    Our work with ADHD and other child behaviour disorders

    Back to top





  20. Do you work with children who have been diagnosed with Attachment Disorder; Conduct Disorder or Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)?

    As with ADHD yes, but with the child behaviour associated with these disorders, and again if other professionals have been involved then courtesy requires that we, and the child's parents, speak to them.

    Don't Let disorders provide justification for impotence and inaction





  21. My daughter's child behaviour is so extreme surely, it must be something like ADHD?

    No not necessarily.   Some children drive their parents to distraction.   It is not uncommon for parents to have built up (without realising it) a repertoire of responses that are seriously inappropriate and inconsistent,  which results in some serious-looking behaviour.   The child's child behaviour is extreme - the parent does not know what to do - so - they repeat what they have always done.   In these cases a younger child's child behaviour although entrenched is often still relatively easy to change, the difficulty is in convincing parents of the importance of the consistent use of subtle changes to their own behaviour.

    Back to top



    Back to top




  22. Are you are just going to tell me to be more positive or assertive because I can try that by myself?

    The problem with many behaviour books and courses is that they do not explain that it is the totality of how parents respond to their children that needs attention.   Parents are sometimes advised to be positive without being told exactly how to incorporate the use of sanctions (punishments) or told to use sanctions (time out etc) without being told how to counter the child's avoidance strategies. When this happens they just end up frustrated and often find themselves using instinctive, but very harmful,   interpersonal   sanctions on their children.


    If you are thinking of
    emailing for some "tips"
    please click HERE first




  23. What can I expect to happen once the intervention starts?

    The first thing to happen will be a full day of consultation - Warwick comes to you.   The day is very long and can be very tiring so parents need to be prepared.  There then follows six weeks of daily telephone conversations (this includes weekends and holidays) and is in turn followed by an unlimited period of weekly phone calls. [You phone an 0845 Number giving local rate from anywhere in the country]

    The body of the work is done in this very intense six-week training period and most parents will have gained all the skills they need during this time.   Parents then continue to keep a daily record of what occurs.  We put no time limit on the phone calls, each phone call lasts as long as is necessary to cover all of the parents needs.   Parents decide for themselves when they no longer want any support. In fact all parents receive support until they are completely sure they have achieved the results they require.

    Back to top



  24. I understand there is a single fee and no other charges what does the fee cover?

    Yes, there is a single fee with no other charges, it covers all the work done and all our time in consultation with parents by phone each day.   Parents need to allow more than an hour each day in the first weeks.   Work continues until the problem is solved to parents satisfaction and they decide their child's child behaviour has improved enough and their own skills are secure enough for them to no longer need support.





  25. How much will it cost for the complete intervention?

    For the full intervention with open-ended support
    parents pay a one-off payment of £1895.00    
    ( $1895.00 )  This fee covers all the work that we do until parents decide that they longer need our help.

    Once clients have paid their deposit
    * we strive to schedule the intervention to begin within two weeks.

    The fee covers all travel costs and all other expenses.
    (travel outside the UK is included)

    ( Canadian $3,973.00 - )
     as of 16th May 06 rates vary

    *A deposit of £650 reserves Warwick's services

    Back to top



  26. Can I have the consultation day without the telephone Support?

    Yes.   Parents can opt for a whole day with Warwick during which he explains the fundamentals of his Child Behaviour Change Method - he comes to you. Please be clear that this option does not include any follow-up support.   It is intended to give parents detailed information that may be useful, and personalise the detailed advice contained in Warwick's ebook.   It is therefore not designed for a child with extreme behaviour.   It is unlikely that you will be able to change extreme child behaviour without support.

    The day usually starts around 10.30 a.m (depending on travel to you) and runs to at least 4.30 p.m. and we usually work through a light lunch.   However parents should allow 2 more hours in case we need more time than this.


    One-off payment of £650 -
    pre-cleared cheque

    ( Canadian $1559
    - 2nd May 05 )
    ( U.S. $1237
    - 2nd May 05 ) rates change



  27. I want to go ahead what do I do next?

    Ring us on

    0845 430 5340
    or

    0208 771 5589

    (international 44 208 653 9768).

    Most parents who ring already have a good idea how Warwick works and have correctly concluded that their child's continuing bad child behaviour is caused or made worse by their responses to it.   Warwick will ask you (and your partner) to detail the problems you are having.   Then, if all agree, a date will be decided for the consultation day which starts the intervention.

    The consultation day is arranged on a day when your children are not around - children usually do not know that we are involved.   For the complete intervention, you pay a deposit of 35%
    - pre-cleared cheque  (non-refundable if you cancel since arrangements will have been made*).

    If you require the single day of training your booking is confirmed on receipt of your cheque for the full amount.
     (non refundable if you cancel and arrangements have been made*). * Re-scheduling is fine but, as we can only work with a limited number of clients, a parents booking will mean that we have arranged travel and turned away other clients.   So please be certain that you want to go ahead before you send your cheque.

    Back to top



  28. At what times do parents make their daily consultation phone calls?

    Parents need to phone every day without fail in the first weeks if they want to be successful.  Parents who are in different locations during the day usually arrange a conference call so that the we can all talk at the same time. Parents need to find a time each day when their children cannot overhear between

    8.30 am and 5.30 pm.(last call needs to finish by 5.30pm)

    Between 3.30am and 12.30pm Eastern Canada & US.
    Between 2.30am and 11.30pm Central Canada & US.
    Between 12.30am and 09.30pm Pacific Canada & US.
    Between 7.30pm and 4.30am Eastern Australia.






  29. How much time will it take?

    Surprising little!   In most cases parents begin to see beneficial effects within two or three weeks.   The average intervention lasts around 9 weeks.   The child's acceptance of their parents' new expectations is often accomplished within the first four weeks; parents then decide the amount of time they still need to completely consolidate their training.

    If the intervention requires more time
    we do not charge any more. We continue to work with parents until THEY are satisfied that the problem is solved.

    Back to top

    Too Young to be Naughty

    I tell my 15 months old 'No', but he just won't listen

    A "Nasty" 2 year old



  30. What are the most difficult aspects for parents?

    Admitting that the child behaviour is serious, that a child is not going to 'grow out' of it.   Admitting that objective help is needed.    It can also be difficult for parents to accept how quickly changes in their own responses can affect seriously inappropriate behaviour.





    THEORETICAL CONSIDERATIONS

  31. What is the theoretical basis of your work?

    Theoretical Basis - Click Here



  32. I want to become a client, what do I do?

    Just ring Warwick (Monday to Friday 9.30 - 5.30) on

    0845 430 5340   (local rate)
    or
    0208 653 9768

    and outline the problems you are having.



Contact us


    by   Phone
    United Kingdom - Monday to Friday 9.30 - 5.30

    0845 430 5340   (local rate)

    or

    0208 653 9768



    by   Phone
    International
     - Monday to Friday 9.30 - 5.30

    44 208 771 5589


    by   Email

    WarwickDyer @ behaviourchange.com

    If you are thinking of emailing
    for some "tips" please
    Click Here First



    by   Letter  
    Behaviour Change Consultancy
    24 Rochdale
    66 Harold Road
    London   SE19 3TF





Back to top

© Copyright 2005 ref. All rights reserved.

Warwick Dyers EBook Download